Kontrol...

Do we talk a lot or a little? Do we make good use of our communications or not? Should we be trying to develop or should we become stagnant and typically vacant? What works best? The volume in the silence or the deafening pounding potential critic-kall-ity of that heart to heart?

Who should control a relationship, should there be control, what would it look like, when did power-sharing ever work, dictatorship aren't acceptable are they?

What's better: sharp or blunt?